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retreats and trips

From the vault…

Posted on by jon in culture, internet findings, life, random thoughts, retreats and trips | Leave a comment

Why Lightning McQueen? Keep reading…

I stumbled upon a 3-year-old entry from my old blog that I wrote while leading my first ski retreat with my youth back in 2008. I thought it was interesting to see where my mind was at that time, and thought I’d share it with you.

This is from January 20, 2008. I had only two kids (HUH?) at the time, and was still fairly fresh to youth ministry.

As I sit here on the last full day of our Ski Retreat, a fire burning about three feet to the northeast of where I’m sitting, I think about how, for most of us, spirituality is routine. We carry out a routine of going to church, Sunday School, the occasional Wednesday night dinner, etc. But what are we getting out of it?

When Jesus becomes routine to us, we need to take a step back, view the big picture of our lives, and say, “I need to do something to rejuvenate myself right now.” Think of it as a lecture on one of your favorite topics, but with a relatively boring speaker. You go into the lecture expecting great things, but then those great things just tend to blend in with everything and become less and less special as it goes on.

My son’s favorite movie of all time is “Cars.” I’ve seen this movie more times than I care to recount, but this movie has a great line that is appropriate to this situation. When Lightning McQueen goes to get new tires from Luigi, he says, “Gimme the best set of blackwalls you’ve got!” To which Luigi replies, “You do not know what you want – Luigi knows what you want. Blackwall tires – they blend into the pavement. What you need are white wall tires – they say, ‘Look at me… love me.’”

My challenge to you is to not “blend into the pavement.” Do something extraordinary for Christ – because He’s done some pretty extraordinary things for you.

God Bless,
Jon

Man, I miss watching Cars. KA-CHOW!!!

Presbytery Youth Designs

Posted on by jon in design stuff, retreats and trips | 1 Comment

I’m a leader on the Presbytery Youth Council of Coastal Carolina, and I usually do graphic design work for the group’s events. Here are the latest two designs for your viewing and commenting pleasure:

This is a logo I created for the council’s 2010-2011 theme, “Larger than Life.” All of the other themes of events will somehow relate back to this theme. With this design, I was looking to do something simple, and after a bit of web inspiration, came up with this. I was able to get a high-res image of the PCUSA’s logo, and after playing around with the opacity, got it looking just right.

The next image is a promo for the first PYC event of the year, the kickoff event. I was going for a festive, bubbly-type of thing with this. I used some “fireworks” brushes I found on deviantart and other than having to angle each letter individually, it wasn’t really that time-consuming.

As always, comments are appreciated. You can click on each image for a larger version.

A birthday to remember

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I’m writing this from the lobby of Assembly Inn in beautiful Montreat, NC. Just had to tell you about what happened last night. About 11pm, I was making rounds to make sure everyone was in bed, and subsequently locked my room key in my room. I called the main office for another, but they told me that I’d have to walk across the Montreat campus to get it.

One of our high school guys accompanied me on the journey. After hiking up and down there and back, I got up to our floor only to realize that the lights in the hall were off. I figured everyone was asleep. Then, the lights came on and our entire group was out in the hallway with tins of balloons, streamers, etc, with gifts and cards for my birthday.

I was extremely surprised! I was a bit bummed that I wouldn’t be able to spend my birthday at home with the family this year, but this was the next best thing. Apparently, my wife was in on it, as there were gifts from here as well.

I’m very blessed to have such an amazing group of people that surround me. Last night was great – and it wasn’t even my birthday yet!

in the middle

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This past weekend, I took a group of teens and preteens to Montreat, NC for our Fall Retreat. The theme of this trip was “Transformed.” During our Saturday morning program, we talked about where our “center” is – that is, what the rest of us revolves around. To use a somewhat silly but somewhat common example, sometimes the center of a person lies in a sport. Everything they do revolves around a sport – making a team, staying on that team, and hopefully getting to a better team in the future. Sometimes everything revolves around a person – a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, child, etc.

I could use more examples here, but the point I’m trying to make is that in every situation but one, the nucleus of a person is tied to something that directly effects that person. If your world revolves around a sport, it’s not for the sake of the sport, it’s for your own sake. If it’s a person at your center, it’s tied to your relationship with that person. All of these things can be related to self.

I struggle with this. It’s really hard for me to take myself out of the focus. As I went through this past weekend, it was significantly easier to keep Jesus in the middle of everything. I mean, that’s what we were there for! But how do I (or we) do that on a daily basis, through the mundane tasks of everyday life?

I don’t have a concrete answer for this right now. But what I do know are three things that have helped keep me from putting total focus on things that make me happy.

  1. The hierarchy: Jesus first, others second, me last.
  2. The motto: Live with Christ in your heart, and His love as your motivation.
  3. The prayer. I’ve been using this prayer every morning this week, and it’s helped my days get off to a “right” start:

Lord, please rid me of my own self today and help me to remember that I should be serving you and you alone. Keep my eyes and my heart focused on the cross, and help me to be motivated by your love and not my own vain desires. Amen.

When you pray this week, I’d invite you to pray this same prayer. I’ve noticed that my motivations have been altered, and feel as though I’ve really furthered the Kingdom this week as a result.

Have a great, Christ-centered week!